Parents and teachers don’t want to talk about sex when teenagers and students are around. They believe sex-talk could “disvirgin the ears” of the young ones. They don’t want to give the teens ideas or put funny thoughts into their heads when they are barely old enough to handle such. So they keep the teenagers from learning about sex education – leaving them to find out by themselves in their own different ways.
Here then are 7 s.ex education topics teachers and parents don’t want to discuss with their young ones:
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Sex is sweet – only within the marriage covenant
The truth is that sex is sweet; and when engaged in within the marriage setting. But teachers and parents paint sex as bad for teenagers so as to discourage them from investigating and experimenting with it. They make it seem that sex within any settings is bad and should be run away from. However, it is best to teach youths that sex is sweet and good, but only when engaged in as adults within the marriage union.
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Having big breasts is an indication that a teen engages in secret sex
Parents and teachers make teenagers believe that developing big breasts in an indication that a girl flirts around. But that is not true. Being busty is a natural gift depending on the genetic makeup of individuals. It is not an indication that a girl engages in secret sex. Adults should explain things as they are and not try to frighten teenagers with misinformation.
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Masturbation is wrong
Parents and teachers do not want teenagers and young adults to engage in masturbation, saying it is unhealthy. But science has proven that masturbation does not pose any health risks to any individual. It may be wrong from the religious and cultural point of view, but that does not mean it is bad for the person that engages in it. Meanso, many teenagers learn about their bodies when they engage in self-exploration.
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Girls have sexual needs just as boys or men do
The society teaches that boys and men are sex machines and must be satisfied at all times. But this is not true. Ladies have sexual needs that require fulfillment too. Women have sexual preferences too. Just as men could demand for sex when they need it, women could do the same when they feel like it. It is not right for parents to teach their girls to repress their sex urges, but rather to express them when it is right to do so within the marriage union.
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Girls experience orgasm
Many women do not know about orgasms. And those who do think women should not aim to experience it. For those women, they are satisfied that they could bring their male partners to the point of ejaculation. And they teach their teenage girls the same. But it is wrong to condition girls against experiencing orgasm, and teach that it is the exclusive rights of men. Parents and teachers must let teenagers know that teenage girls and boys could experience sexual release when they come of age.
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Sex could be great during girls’ monthly period
Many parents teach that engaging in sex during a woman’s monthly period is bad and dirty. But this is not true, and women could enjoy great sex during their menstruation. It could be a cultural taboo – but it remains a taboo and nothing more. Scientifically speaking, there is no harm in having sex when a woman is on her period, so long she and her male partner do not find it distasteful.
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Using dildos and vibrators is wrong
Using sex toys to bring pleasure is not bad once it is acceptable to the parties involved. Parents and teachers have the habits of hinting that using sex toys to enhance the sexual experience is bad and sinful. But dildos and vibrators are not compulsory and are only applied when individuals are convinced they actually need them. That not all adults approve of them does not make them bad, so long they provide value to the user.