First off, let me quickly say this, if you haven’t taken your time to watch the full video on YouTube then you should please do. It’s only when you see the full video you can get to understand where she is coming from. If you keep watching the sound bites on twitter and Instagram, you will jump into unnecessary conclusion or you will misjudge her just like i first did.

You see when it comes to matters of the heart, you can’t really tell people how to do some certain things, you can’t tell a woman how to love a man neither is it your place to tell them how to move on from a man. I remember when I first saw the first sound bite of this Tonto Dikeh video, i lost my mind, i was like “wetin dey happen, this girl no dey tire to talk, aunty it being 2 years now, move on na”. But after I saw the full video, I was ashamed of myself because I was too quick in my judgement.

Truth be told, the matter seems overflood but “IF” everything she said in her video is true, then I don’t blame her one bit. If I were in her shoes I might do more than she is doing. I’m using the word “IF” because we can’t really be certain if everything she said is true, though she had some strong evidence to back them up but then again, like i tell people “when a woman decides to destroy you, there is no line she won’t cross” .

One thing this video thought me and what you should hold on to is that, these celebrities are also human, bound to make mistakes, at times some of them can’t even handle some of the things you go through but you look up to them like a demi god and at times because of this, these celebrities also don’t get to live a free life.

Tonto Dikeh could have walked away from her marriage with everything she was going through but she chose to stay because she didn’t want to give people the satisfaction of “I told you so” because accord to her, many were expecting her marriage to crash and that was part of mistake. Though I would say she was also in love, even though she didn’t admit that in her video, “me go talk am” , she did love him at one point.

Secondly I’m sorry to say this this, but in this century, how can someone boldly tell you they are the son of a former president and you will be so naive as to not Google it or even find a way to confirm it. I mean you are a public figure, just one or two phone calls, you can get it figured out but you just believed it like that, why? If you ask me “I go say na part of her desperation” to be with someone that matters.

Now to the one that still makes me laugh, you calling Churchill a 40 second man, not trying to be incentive but really how in hell do you know he is a 40 second man, i mean was there a timer when you guys where having sex or instead of moaning, you were busy counting the seconds in your head, i just want to know how exactly you got to that conclusion. What tickles my fancy the most, is when she said the sex where she got pregnant with her son was the longest, 1 minute, like that sh*t burst my head.

In conclusion, Tonto Dikeh is human and like every other human being, she’s hurt and once again “IF” everything she said in her interview are true, then please let the Tiger roar, like her take some blood. “If my sister sponsor her own wedding by herself, come dey face the same thing Tonto Dikeh face, Lord knows na me go kill the husband “. You can’t put any human being through such and expect all to be forgiven just like that, hell no, “if na me I will be your worst nightmare” .

And just a piece of advice to you, don’t rush into a relationship because you feel the need to be loved, don’t let people’s opinion have an effect on your relationship and please don’t love blindly, cause i know love can be blind but “shine your eyes biko” don’t be a victim of your own emotions.